Fun with Colours and Ineptitude of Bus Companies

Sunday, 15 March 2009


Yesterday morning, having arrived home late from work as usual on Friday night, I dragged myself out of bed at 5.45 to walk to the bus stop by 6.33. This is the time the first bus leaves on a Saturday - so it says on the timetable. I got to the bus stop at 6.25, and stood there until 6.45, when I began to wonder what was going on. I called the number on the stop, but got a voicemail; because obviously, no one in their right minds would be out of bed that early on a Saturday morning. I texted the number which tells you when the next bus will come, and received an answer: 7.22. This was very annoying for a number of reasons: not only because it meant standing at the bus stop for an hour, but also because my next connection was at 8.05 in a place that's around half an hour away - so on public transport, 7.22 would be cutting it fine. 


I sat down on the pavement and waited until the 7.22 arrived at 7.28. Dragging myself up the steps, the usually-grumpy bus driver greeted me with a cheerful smile. "You've been 'ere a while", he said, in his wonderfully old-school accent; "you were 'ere when I were driving t'work." I agreed, and told him the timetable said there was a 6.33 bus. Disbelieving, he emerged from his bus-driver hole behind the wheel and came outside to look. "My", he said, "so it does. I'll 'ave to tell 'im it's wrong." He grinned at me, and I smiled back wearily. 

Luckily, the bus managed to arrive just in time to get me to my next connection, but not in time for me to grab a coffee, which meant that my mood didn't exactly improve. When, three-and-a-half hours later, I arrived at my destination to a room full of screaming children (I was helping at a science fair), my headache worsened. As the afternoon wore on, the chromotography experiments with coloured pens and filter paper, the 'rocket mice' being catapulted out of bottles for force experiments, and the fun everyone was having with the water vortex put me in a better state of mind, and when Maya, the friend I was meeting for coffee while I was there, walked through the door at 3.00, I was feeling quite cheerful. 

We found a beautiful little Mediterranean deli and flopped down on a sofa to swap gossip on old friends. I told her about Jon, who died on Thursday, and we both looked sufficiently sad for a few moments before moving on to juicier topics. All in all, a good day. Would I do it again? Yes, even though I didn't get home until 10 at night. But next time, I'll know what time the bus leaves. Unless I look at the timetable again. 

A Sad Day

Saturday, 14 March 2009


Yesterday began like any other; a beautiful walk to the bus stop, fun at work. Then at some point in the afternoon, I logged on to Facebook and discovered that one of my friends has died. He was only seventeen, and I knew him when we were kids; we lived in the same village. We kept in touch sporadically, but not as much as I'd have liked. He was easily one of the nicest, most caring people I have ever known. It's amazing to see the amount of tributes already left on his page; he was popular and well-loved by everyone. 


R.I.P. 

A Long Day

Friday, 13 March 2009

Well, yesterday was fun. Arrived at work wearing - shock horror - heels, because I had a meeting and wanted to be able to look the guy in the eye (I'm quite vertically challenged; or just a shortarse, depending on your view!). 


All went well, and I finished work at the normal time in the evening and headed to central London for a lecture by a guy who's working in a similar field to my own. I imagine there might be some crossover between our research at some point, so I wanted to go along. It was fascinating, as was the ceiling of the building, which had signs of the Zodiac lit up in tiny bulbs. Beautiful. 

Post-lecture, I tottered off on my high heels, arrived at the station just as it was closing, and hopped on a train. All went smoothly until I got to the other end, where I have to catch a bus home. Arriving at the bus stop just in time, I pulled myself tiredly up the steps and gave my ticket to the driver. A conversation ensued: 

Him: "You know we don't go to K------ at this time?" 

Me: "What?" 

Him: "The 21.45 and the 23.45 go to K-------. This is the 22.45, which only goes to Y-----. You'll have to wait an hour for the bus to K-------." 

Me: "But... ohhh...." 

Luckily, the nice bus driver let me sit on his bus all the way to Y---- and back, then all the way home. So essentially, I got two hour-long bus rides for the price of one, but at least I was warm and had WiFi. 

Needless to say, I arrived home at past midnight feeling not entirely energetic. Collapsed into bed, and the alarm went off five minutes later. Or so it seemed. Now I'm on the morning bus, aware that I'm going to spend far too much money on caffeine today. 

The lecture was worth it though, and the walk back from the bus stop in the dark, misty night was absolutely beautiful. 

D'oh!

Tuesday, 10 March 2009


Our heating has been broken since Friday, but we have good landlords (for a change!), so the man came out to fix it today. Once he'd finished, I decided to wash some clothes; it's been impossible to get anything dry sans heating for the last four days. The husband had just returned from the shops, so I dragged him into the bedroom and ordered him to strip. He did so, looking happy, until he realised I just wanted to put a washload on. I bundled the clothes in the washing machine, added some of mine, and turned it on. 


Our day continued: the husband played some online chess, I spent time discovering exciting new websites, and we had lunch. As the day progressed, the sunlight on the hills became more and more beautiful, until we could resist it no longer: we decided to go for a walk. I then had the bright idea of walking to the shop to buy some ginger wine (good stuff!). Thus ensued a frantic, round-the-house hunt for both of our wallets. In the end, being the laid-back people we are, we decided to give up on the wine idea and go for a walk through the forest, in the hope that the Wallet Fairies would have returned our belongings by the time we came home. 

And return them they did, as soon as the husband opened the washing machine and took out his sopping wet trousers. Luckily there was no paper money in there, but I'll have to find a new Caffe Nero loyalty card. 

In the words of the King of Simpson... D'oh! 

Skipping Caviar

There was some funny story I was going to post about yesterday, but I have no idea what it was, so never mind... perhaps it'll come back to me later. 


The day at work was good, but you know those days that just don't quite start? It was one of those. I spent the first hour staring at my screen, before I realised I hadn't done anything. This is incredibly unlike me; my favourite quote from my boss when I came back from a week off: 
"Thank God you're back! Three people have been doing half your job!" 

Praise indeed. And probably a bit of exaggeration on her part. Needless to say, my days are normally jam-packed with productivity, but not yesterday. I think it may have been a day-after-the-day-after-the-night-before hangover. Which, as my colleague Polly commented, are the worst kind. 

After work there was a networking event on that I was going to go to - mainly for the free wine and caviar - but by the time the end of the day came, all I wanted was something ultimately tamer: bed and hot chocolate. So home I went, to watch Green Wing with the husband before falling asleep. 

Today is feeling more productive already; I've tidied the house (I prefer tidying to cleaning), written a business article, caught up with friends via email and completed Work Task 1. Which is, I believe, the only work task for the day. I work two days a week from home, and the other three from the office, which gives me time to recuperate from the journey. 

Anyway... will post more interestingly later, when I think of something inspired to say. Until then, have a good day! :) 

Life... oh life...

Sunday, 8 March 2009

I live here: 



...and today it is beautiful outside. Sunny, bright, crisp. The husband is in the living room, watching something to do with sport. I am in the study, trying to catch up on my pending pile, but blogging instead. Which is on my pending pile, to be fair. 

The husband's parents came over last night. We were married last year, in a small traditional ceremony, which only my husband and I attended. This was mainly because he asked me three weeks before we were going to do it, so we didn't really have time to arrange things. This year, we're getting married in the eyes of the law and of the people around us. We all got nicely tipsy last night discussing plans, and his parents seemed pleased, which made me happy. 

I am so much larger than I was a year ago, and would love to get back down to a size 8 for my wedding. I was a 4 when we met (I'm talking in UK sizes, by the way); a 6 when we were engaged and an 8 when we were married. Now we're 'getting legal', I'd like to be an 8 again; the problem being I've put on two dress sizes since then. 

I am also worried about starting to lose weight, as I only recovered from anorexia when I moved in with my husband. He worked wonders for my self-esteem, and I discovered that food can be a good thing. Now I like it, and enjoy having meals as part of my day. 

So, my plan is to exercise more and eat pretty much what I eat already (I'm a very healthy eater). The problem with this is that the pills I'm on make it difficult to move. They make me sick in the mornings and seem to make walking more difficult. However, for the next week I'm going to try getting up early and going for a run before I take them, to see if it works. I'm sure it will. When I was at my most unwell as a teenager, I managed to run every day, probably just due to a large helping of willpower. 

Wish me luck! 

I feel the need to apologise for focussing on my lack of health in this post; but it is my blog, and no-one's going to read it. And I did set up this account specifically for this reason. Still, the guilt is there, so sorry if you were hoping for some more satisfying reading material! 

A Good Day

Thursday, 5 March 2009

My best friend sent me this card today. It made me smile.